<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post3414211787427582522..comments</id><updated>2011-02-18T08:40:09.422-06:00</updated><category term='We have Starbucks to thank for this one.'/><category term='Me and Noelley'/><category term='Getting started'/><title type='text'>Comments on A JD + Three: I lost my candle</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/feeds/3414211787427582522/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html'/><author><name>Anne</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10292267170117796389</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_uG0dkoLFgdo/S3K2gBBeoII/AAAAAAAAAI8/alodkkmY3_4/S220/Me.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-7144144191215158487</id><published>2011-02-18T08:40:09.422-06:00</published><updated>2011-02-18T08:40:09.422-06:00</updated><title type='text'>I totally get it.  I just found your blog and I do...</title><content type='html'>I totally get it.  I just found your blog and I don&amp;#39;t know what kind of work you are doing, but I am a lawyer with two kids.  While school had homework, the stress and pressure was nothing compared to really being a lawyer.  That adds to my candle burning out and I think adding a second child increases the parent pressure exponentially.  I hope you find an answer to your burning out.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/7144144191215158487'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/7144144191215158487'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html?showComment=1298040009422#c7144144191215158487' title=''/><author><name>Mom on a Line</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11148983594692927783</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='22' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8gpjAA2eXhc/TUn-BYlCdGI/AAAAAAAAAB4/4Z8pEuJmlf4/s220/balance.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-3414211787427582522' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/posts/default/3414211787427582522' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-878542286'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-2159246660605150932</id><published>2011-02-17T06:54:29.541-06:00</published><updated>2011-02-17T06:54:29.541-06:00</updated><title type='text'>I know what this feels like.

But before you do an...</title><content type='html'>I know what this feels like.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But before you do anything? Stop telling yourself you suck. I know it feels like that and I&amp;#39;ve been there. But the biggest thing bringing me down when I feel like that? Is me. Telling myself I&amp;#39;m no good and can&amp;#39;t do anything right. That just starts a vicious cycle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You are a wonderful, beautiful woman doing her best. That&amp;#39;s amazing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love you. Send me an email if you want to talk.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/2159246660605150932'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/2159246660605150932'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html?showComment=1297947269541#c2159246660605150932' title=''/><author><name>KLZ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07148991868974040605</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10478661605239809162'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_0cCVfs7ttfw/TTHvhBqEd8I/AAAAAAAAATQ/vANdvZw3nYw/S220/insanitybutton1.png'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-3414211787427582522' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/posts/default/3414211787427582522' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1525493921'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-136992381918959315</id><published>2011-02-16T20:22:38.496-06:00</published><updated>2011-02-16T20:22:38.496-06:00</updated><title type='text'>I agree with Lori. I had my thyroid checked last J...</title><content type='html'>I agree with Lori. I had my thyroid checked last June and it changed everything! Hope you get your candle back and it burns brightly once again soon.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/136992381918959315'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/136992381918959315'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html?showComment=1297909358496#c136992381918959315' title=''/><author><name>Midwest Elle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17470669986750599178</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='02413197938779328171'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_wfbZ5y1DEFg/TUJoZLnIWlI/AAAAAAAAALY/gDWCHI1LhmU/s220/smile%2Briver.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-3414211787427582522' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/posts/default/3414211787427582522' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1207857136'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-194621423231199367</id><published>2011-02-16T20:02:31.236-06:00</published><updated>2011-02-16T20:02:31.236-06:00</updated><title type='text'>You sound like me..........because I suffer from i...</title><content type='html'>You sound like me..........because I suffer from insomnia really ad sometimes I&amp;#39;m working on like 3-4 hours of sleep!! Hope it&amp;#39;s get better for you!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/194621423231199367'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/194621423231199367'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html?showComment=1297908151236#c194621423231199367' title=''/><author><name>Anisha</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01633440318424371588</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08944137605195909714'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_0XDEs_m1t4g/S8OlhUgJsFI/AAAAAAAAACI/MSWKhE_hIUY/S220/IMG_0477.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-3414211787427582522' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/posts/default/3414211787427582522' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-667510769'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-913611291478112477</id><published>2011-02-16T15:41:33.301-06:00</published><updated>2011-02-16T15:41:33.301-06:00</updated><title type='text'>I feel the same way.  I think with each child, the...</title><content type='html'>I feel the same way.  I think with each child, they took away my ability to focus.  Except on cookies.  Those I can focus on 24/7</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/913611291478112477'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/913611291478112477'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html?showComment=1297892493301#c913611291478112477' title=''/><author><name>TheNextMartha</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-3414211787427582522' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/posts/default/3414211787427582522' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-64085843'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-8321889364398499020</id><published>2011-02-16T15:12:20.126-06:00</published><updated>2011-02-16T15:12:20.126-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Get your thryroid checked.  You have had a hard ti...</title><content type='html'>Get your thryroid checked.  You have had a hard time losing weight, you are tired (more tired than you think you should be), and you cannot concentrate.  All signs of hypothyroidism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lori</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/8321889364398499020'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/3414211787427582522/comments/default/8321889364398499020'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html?showComment=1297890740126#c8321889364398499020' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ajdplusthree.com/2011/02/i-lost-my-candle.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6564147936125964023.post-3414211787427582522' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6564147936125964023/posts/default/3414211787427582522' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2135623469'/></entry></feed>
